Look for girls in your singles ward. I have my own profession and my own interests, and was definitely not pursuing a doctor for intimate partnership, but I quickly realized that my environment started seeing me as only girlfriend of Dr.
The Holy Ghost will testify that it is true.
You should ask yourself if you want to pursue a future partner who was raised in an environment that causes drastic sexual suppression and you may never have a healthy sex life if she is your wife. I also didn't want to push him away by overwhelming him with talks about commitment when he's already stressed.